Doing something on purpose just to get back at someone usually ends up making you unhappy in the lo
Doing something on purpose just to get back at someone usually ends up making you unhappy in the long run. That’s because when you’re trying to prove something to someone, the actions you take are often what they want, not what you truly want. Sure, it might feel good in the moment to prove them wrong, but just because you succeed doesn’t mean they’ll recognize your efforts. In fact, they might just come up with new excuses to look down on you because to them, you’re someone who attacked them, and it’s only natural for people to fight back when they feel attacked. Of course, maybe you only lashed out because they hurt you first. Still, if you respond to aggression with more aggression, it turns into an endless cycle of conflict. That’s why even if you run into someone awful or unfair, it’s usually better not to fight back in the same way. Sure, sometimes you do need to stand up for yourself, but in most cases, it’s better to avoid direct confrontation. So, what should you do instead? Try to stay calm and treat them as normally as possible. Even if you’re frustrated inside and do your best to keep things civil, if you can keep yourself steady, everything around you will start to settle down to bit by bit.
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